Booty Calls To Save A Marriage

Let's talk about this subject. A friend and I were discussing the sex between her and her husband and how she hates it. She said it was the worst sex she has ever had. Before discussing it with me she took it upon herself to let her husband know marriage is not for her and she thinks they will not make it because their sex life sucks! Yup she sure did tell him that. You know he started crying and told her he would work on it. Please let me know how you work on it? Anyhow they ended up having a huge fight and so much unwanted DRAMA that it just about ruined the entire weekend.

After my friend was done telling me the story I gave her what I thought was great advice. I told her that her husband was such a great guy and has so many great qualities that you should not leave him over sex all you need to do is make a booty call. She thought I was kidding or crazy or both. I was very serious though. First Im not sure sex is worth throwing in the towel on a marriage and second if its just a booty call is that cheating? I mean its no strings attached no emotions involved just great sex. You know a booty call nothing more and nothing less. I wonder if more marriages would survive if booty calls were aloud? And please tell me what is so bad about a booty call. Its not like you love another person or even want to be with this person all you want to do is have sex with this person. As causal as sex has become these days how can it be cheating.

Im sure a ton of people will think I am fucked up for thinking this way but I also think that my reasoning is pretty solid. I mean think of all the families that would be saved and how many marriages would not end up in divorce. If i have offend anyone I do apologize in advance but maybe we should think about this.


BTW - My marriage and sex life is perfect but if it weren't I wonder if I would be willing to do this. Im not even sure I could.


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