Why am I the "BITCH"

What a rough day in the office! I have to say for the most part I am the "Fun Bobby" at work but please do not misunderstand what Im saying, work hard to play hard and always know work comes before play. Why doesn't everyone know this rule? Here is what I hate about work and having "friends" at work. See most days things run smooth at the hotel and its not often that I have to play bad cop but when the time comes that you are not doing your job and the guest service is being compermised cause your slacking off I have to be the one who says "Oh no this is not how we do things around here" and when I do that all of the sudden people are mad at me and call me a bitch because YOU werent doing YOUR job! WTF how is it my fault that you got called out for NOT working! I mean Im not a babysitter and we are all adults here so when the times comes that your getting in trouble for not working please do not blame anyone but yourself.

My next question is this, Can a manager and an employee really be "friends"? I ask this because I think for the most part I am friends with all the people I work with and I guess thats why people dont respect me as a manager and then when its time for me to step into that role all of the sudden you hate me and we are not friends anymore? I dont see where that is fair. As an adult it is your job to take responsabilty for your actions and own them. How can I be the bad guy for what you did wrong!! Grr that pisses me off! Oh well such is life and it is what it is. I will survive but I just need to vent sometimes...

Until Next Time.....Blog to Express Yourself

I'm Back....

WOW I have been slacking on the posting for a while but I have NO excuses as I know all of your lives are as busy as mine and still have time to blog so lets call a spade a spade...I'M LAZY!!! There's been a lot of things going on over the last year but too much put down so we will start fresh moving forward..

Emily is here visting with Maggie for a couple of days and I'm looking forward to spending time with them and having a fun filled weekend. I hope we can take a ride through lion country safari or something cool like that but we will see how the scheduling plays out.

Well I have to go back to work for now but I will post later as I must vent about my stupid a@$% Vet but like I said thats a whole post to itself.

Until Next Time.....Blog To Connect

Booty Calls To Save A Marriage

Let's talk about this subject. A friend and I were discussing the sex between her and her husband and how she hates it. She said it was the worst sex she has ever had. Before discussing it with me she took it upon herself to let her husband know marriage is not for her and she thinks they will not make it because their sex life sucks! Yup she sure did tell him that. You know he started crying and told her he would work on it. Please let me know how you work on it? Anyhow they ended up having a huge fight and so much unwanted DRAMA that it just about ruined the entire weekend.

After my friend was done telling me the story I gave her what I thought was great advice. I told her that her husband was such a great guy and has so many great qualities that you should not leave him over sex all you need to do is make a booty call. She thought I was kidding or crazy or both. I was very serious though. First Im not sure sex is worth throwing in the towel on a marriage and second if its just a booty call is that cheating? I mean its no strings attached no emotions involved just great sex. You know a booty call nothing more and nothing less. I wonder if more marriages would survive if booty calls were aloud? And please tell me what is so bad about a booty call. Its not like you love another person or even want to be with this person all you want to do is have sex with this person. As causal as sex has become these days how can it be cheating.

Im sure a ton of people will think I am fucked up for thinking this way but I also think that my reasoning is pretty solid. I mean think of all the families that would be saved and how many marriages would not end up in divorce. If i have offend anyone I do apologize in advance but maybe we should think about this.


BTW - My marriage and sex life is perfect but if it weren't I wonder if I would be willing to do this. Im not even sure I could.


Until Next Time... Blog To Think

Holiday Parties

I really do love the holiday season but boy do I hate the parties that come along with it. I think about each party I have to attend and I have found out I hate one more than the other. Between Family, Friends and Work functions I am already over it and I have not even started yet!

Besides having to have "Game On" at these functions you have to worry about what to wear. This year I am having a problem with this. Normally this part of the ordeal is the least of my worries but this year I cant find shit to wear and i dont know how many more dresses or outfits I can try on before I kill myself! The past two nights have been spent running around looking for the "Perfect" holiday party attire with NO LUCK! I am running out of time and Im not sure if I can go back out in search of this outfit. I wonder why jeans and flip flops are frowned upon at these functions.

If you would like to suggest a holiday outfit for me to try please feel free to leave a comment...I NEED HELP!

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Monday Blues

Mondays suck! I hated getting up this morning and coming to work! Now I am at work and I have been in the weeds since 8am. WTF! I wish I could just walk out and never come come back. If I did that I would be in big trouble so I guess I will just sit here work my ass off and hate every minute of it! I want to scream! I hope you are having a better day than me!

Until Next Time...Blog to throw a fit!

Who Needs A Doctor

I call Emily and my mom daily regarding Gracie and how to take care of her. I always need to know what to do if she is coughing, sneezing, runny nose, feels warm you get the point so basically I call ALL THE TIME. I rely on Emily mostly for all the tips and treatments for Gracie. Dude its so bad that I dont even care about what time I call or what she has going on at the time of me calling. I know that is rude but she should start looking on the bright side of things. I will list here why she should be happy that I would rather talk to her than Gracie's own doctor.
1. It shows how much I trust her
2. It let's her know I cant live without her
3. She gets to still be the boss of me ( Even as Adults)
4. We get to raise Gracie how she wants me to
5. I make her feel good by showing her how much I need her (Ego boost always good)
6. I am helping her get a jump start at her life as a doctor

So as you can see this really benefits us all. Ok so I am being funny. The main reason for this post was just to say a special THANK YOU to my wonderful sister who is always there for me. I want everyone to know how lucky I am and I hope that she does know how much she means to me and how much I appreciate her. So Em YOUR THE BEST!

Until Next Time....Blog To Say Thanks

BTW - Em this special shout out should clear all consultation charges! :)

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